In a generation that is often obsessed with finding “the one” or ticking off a checklist of specifications, it is
refreshing to encounter a message that shifts the focus from finding the right person to becoming the right
person. This is the heartbeat of Ezeh Akachukwu’s Before You Say “I Do”. Marriage, as the author profoundly states, is not merely a physical union or a remedy for loneliness; it is a spiritual covenant designed for the fulfillment of a divine purpose. Too often, singles approach the altar with a consumer mindset, looking for what they can get, rather than a contributor mindset, looking for what they can give. This book challenges that narrative. It reminds us that Adam did not just stumble upon Eve; God prepared a specific space for her, and she was formed to fill that unique space.